Archives: September 2004

Thu Sep 30, 2004

Debatable

The debates are tonight. Well, 'a' debate is tonight, and all over blog land, earth land, and in most of my conversations today I've heard about one opinion or another. Politics scare me. In part because I really don't understand the mechanics of our political system, and in part because I truly have a general distrust for all things political. Left, Right or Middle, my gut tells me that it is all about acquiring and maintaining power and control. After all, if it is true of one human's nature (in general), why not of a collective grouping?

It is funny (funny strange, not funny haha) when I think on it. In my heart I believe that humans are basically program to be loving and kind. I truly believe that our basic nature is only truly fulfilled by successfully expressing love and caring in community. I do. I also believe that there seems to be something inherently wrong with our wiring, our programming if you will. Left alone, the individual will seek personal gratification and indulgence in the pursuit of power and control. Albeit, perhaps, fleeting. Oversimplified as it is, it is the human dilemma. It is certainly my dilemma. Be it a political rally our a church covered dish supper, a gathering of people will, by default lean toward power grabbing and self promotion. It takes something powerful and rare to motivate and enable something else. It does happen. The Divine does find its way into our choices and systems. It just isn't, well, natural.

So, I don't expect it in the political arena. There just isn't much in either of the dominate 'camps' that remains of a Divine, strange, and anti-power force to bring anything, well, different. So, probably I will not be watching the debate. I will not be informed. I will write and read instead. Call me un-American. Call me disillusioned.

Posted by: Theophany on Sep 30, 04 | 8:07 pm | Profile

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Tue Sep 28, 2004

We Are Blog.

Finding time to blog is a challenge these days. Like so many of the activities that are helpful in my journey, blogging is easily pushed aside. Yet, here I am this morning...

What is going on with Theo today? What sedimentary feelings need to be acknowledged and accepted? hummmm.

Pride: Not much to say, it appears that I'm not as great as I thought.

Theo: That is good. Lust?

Lust: Oh Yes! I'm here, as big, bold and hungry as ever! Oh yeah... where to?

Theo: Easy. Let's not get hurt, now. Would it be possible for you to let Passion have some of that enthusiasm? Some of that drive?

Lust: Again? Damn. He gets to have all the fun. It's not fair.

Theo: Lust, I didn't say you had to give it ALL away, just take it down a notch. There you go...what is that...look...you become Desire. Much better.

Desire: Yes. This feels much better. I desire my wife, my kids laughter, a good cup of coffee...

Passion: Excuuuuuuuuuse me! Can we get on with the day? Like, maybe...NOW!!!

Theo: Yes. I smell the coffee brewing. Lets go have some fun!

Posted by: Theophany on Sep 28, 04 | 6:08 am | Profile

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Mon Sep 27, 2004

Churnings

churnings beneath the surface have me 'ill' today.
i can tell that anger and self loathing are not far away.
Serenity, please come. drive my doubt from here.
let not this churning manifest it's fear.

i need to cry.
i need a meeting.

gentle, Theo...gently

Posted by: Theophany on Sep 27, 04 | 6:10 am | Profile

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Sun Sep 19, 2004

Breathing

funny how a simple thing like breath can be so wonderfully sensual... the way it strokes the hairs on your neck, and whispers, without words, the assurance we are not alone...

Posted by: Theophany on Sep 19, 04 | 9:12 pm | Profile

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Wed Sep 15, 2004

Error! File not found. unable to load...we win, you suck!

The PC at home that I use most often crashed yesterday. I'm not sure how, but several of the windows operating system files got lost, erased, kidnapped or just decided not to come out and play anymore. I had to reformat the hard drive and start from scratch... --sigh--

Most of the data was backed up, but i did lose most of the more recent posts, writings, emails and additions to my address book, so, if you want to be sure that i know how to email you, send me an email at staff@theophany.us.

Namaste'

Posted by: Theophany on Sep 15, 04 | 9:08 pm | Profile

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Sun Sep 12, 2004

Parenting Episode 09122004

this past friday, i received word from my x-wife that our son had 'cheated' on a Spanish test. i trust my son. he is a smart kid. his nature and practice is not one of lies and deceit. he did cheat. forgetting that he had the test, he went out late with several friends and didn't study. his grades are very good, and so at the moment of the test, he panicked and tried to look at some notes in his book bag. he was seen and confronted by his teacher. she was gracious, and didn't write him up. i guess his track record as a good student cased her to spare him the mark on his High school record. he is not so fortunate at home.

after thinking over this this weekend, talking with his mother, and talking with him to let him know how i feel and understand this failure of character his consequences are as follows:

1. even though he has a drivers learner permit, he is not allow to drive for the next 30 days
2. he will have no access to electronics (computer, tv, video games) for the next two weeks during school days (Sunday nights-Friday after school)

for me, even though i can fully understand how easily he could make such a mistake, this is an issue of character and honesty with himself. i asked him, "Why did you feel that the results of a bad grade on one test where worth sacrificing your integrity?" his response, "I just didn't think it through. i didn't want a bad grade." maybe next time he will.

for me, this was emotionally hard. i've felt sick to my stomach. and i know i did the right thing. in spite of my many and severe mistakes and errors in judgment over my life, my role here is to teach, lead and love. this isn't about me - it is about him. i do hope he gets it.

Posted by: Theophany on Sep 12, 04 | 9:32 pm | Profile

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Sat Sep 11, 2004

Eagles Weep

EAGLES WEEP

Eagles weep the dust of fury
Glory droops in a breeze filled sky
Trumpets howl forth silence
Sightless eyes gaze on dust and bone

Paradox rains upon sweltering souls
Discordant melodies, no harmonic home
Dreams of romantic horror in daylight come
Sleeping giants slumber on

Restrained talons long to tear
Flesh and bone, scalp and hair
Bridled shouts from vipered lips
Broken tongues speechless, still... More...

Posted by: Theophany on Sep 11, 04 | 12:16 am | Profile

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Thu Sep 09, 2004

More Than Shadows

When dreams become more than wisps of shadows
Caressing latent longings to the surface
Streams of want filling cavities now cracked, neglected
Then, awareness cocks its head
Points a boney finger into mental darkness
Searching for something more than faint tendrils of artistry

Shadows become more
Dreams as real as the loins of entwined lovers
Lusts materialize
Upon unkempt linens, covering no secrets
I awake to the dawn dripping
Searching again, wanting more
When shadows become more than whispers

-Theo

Posted by: Theophany on Sep 09, 04 | 8:12 pm | Profile

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Tue Sep 07, 2004

Stumbling

Stumbling toward what? I'm stumbling this morning, a bit off center, in-between happy and what? What is this feeling? Sad-no. Angry-no. hummmm....disquieted? Unsettled? Yes, unsettled.

My thoughts of late have been of my inner passion, my anima. My writings reveal sensuality. I could brush this aside and declare it the product of a horny man, but I'm certain there is more to it than that. Forgive me if I'm too crass these days, but It is my self expression and my well being that this honesty requires. More...

Posted by: Theophany on Sep 07, 04 | 6:36 am | Profile

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Mon Sep 06, 2004

Musings

She wrote: "...how very lovely....i must tell you now....my stories and musings are not for the faint of heart....the inspiration i feel and lovingly pass on grows inside through grace....a grace which lets me touch you right there...in that sacred place where emptiness has its home...the little closed corners where pain and dissapointment have put an almost imperceivable lock...the key finely hidden and not retrieved until one day....we again feel courage....courage to perhaps stand naked and vulnerable in front of the fire.....willing to be burned in a frenzy of passion which for so long had become a mere dream of all thoughts unreachable and unbearable.......how many keys do we have?....yes my dear prophet.....the truth...i want to laugh all my laughter...i am willing to cry all my tears....i will be exposed and
gently ...ever so gently i will let you touch my scars...let you kiss them....and they will become holy and tell their stories with joy...hmmmm....."

He wrote: "i've been there, before the fire, naked and burning with passion. yet, i speak not of the simple passion of the flesh, that pounding and lusty connection of man and woman, that swirl of bliss when loins and lips entwine, to ride a rhythm of frenzied concourse..no, i speak now of another naked passion, of the bearing of one's truth from one of those "little closed corners where pain and disappointment have put
an almost imperceivable lock."

the fire lips again, yellow and amber, reaching up into me again, searing wisps of her voice, her touch, when we could have been one and fate stripped us apart. within me she stills resides, laughing a little when some outward expression of woman arouses me, and reflects in the moisture of her fireside passion, her face...

is that a smile i see now, rising from your pursed lips? might you begin, to laugh with me...now?"

Posted by: Theophany on Sep 06, 04 | 1:26 pm | Profile

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Wed Sep 01, 2004

WOW! Jesus Here I Come!

WOW! Mindy Smith's song, "Come To Jesus," makes you want to get religious!

Posted by: Theophany on Sep 01, 04 | 5:54 am | Profile

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